Ngaba kuluncedo ngokwenene ukuba amantombazana athenge iibhegi?

Njengomthengi ophezulu kunye nomthengi wasebusuku kakhulu, ndicinga ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba amantombazana athenge iibhegi zegama lebrand.Oku akukhona nje ngenxa yomgangatho kunye nokubonakala kweengxowa zomyili ngokwabo, kodwa kubaluleke ngakumbi, zifanekisela isimboli sentlalo yoluntu kunye nobunikazi.
Kwabasetyhini, ukuba nengxowa yomyili kunokubenza bazive bezithembile kwaye baneqhayiya.Oku akubangelwa nje ixabiso eliduru leengxowa zomyili, kodwa okona kubaluleke ngakumbi, zidla ngokwenziwa ngobuchwephesha obukumgangatho ophezulu kunye nezinto ezintle, ngoko ukuba nengxowa yomyili kunokwenza amabhinqa azive engabantu abakumgangatho ophezulu nabakumgangatho ophezulu.
Nangona kunjalo, kubomi bokwenyani, iibhegi zomyili nazo zinento engalunganga.Ngokomzekelo, ezinye iimpawu zinokuba neengxaki zomgangatho, njengoko kwenzeka kuNksz Zhang.Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abafazi banokuziva bedanile kwaye benomsindo ngenxa yokuba batyale imali eninzi kunye neemvakalelo ngaphandle kokufumana imbuyekezo elindelekileyo.

Ukusuka kumbono wengcali, le meko inokubangela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo kubasetyhini.Basenokuvakalelwa kukuba utyalo-mali lwabo luchithiwe, okanye imeko yabo yentlalo iye yathotywa.Kule meko, ndikholelwa ukuba abafazi kufuneka banikwe inkxaso kunye nenkuthazo, kwaye babonelelwe ngeendlela ezichanekileyo zokuhlangabezana nokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwabo lweemvakalelo.
Ukuqukumbela, kubaluleke ngokwenene ukuba abasetyhini bathenge iingxowa zomyili, kodwa kufuneka siqaphele iintsilelo kunye neengxaki zabo.Njengama-psychoanalysts, kufuneka sihloniphe izigqibo zokuthenga zabasetyhini ngelixa sikwabonelela ngenkxaso eyakhayo kunye nezicwangciso zokumelana nokubanceda bamelane noxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye nokungonwabi.